Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds are currently one of Hollywood’s most beloved power couples—we love to watch them troll each other endlessly on social media and support each other’s various projects on the red carpet.

The couple (who married in 2012) now have three daughters together: James, Inez, and baby Betty. But how did Serena van der Woodsen and Deadpool get here? Let’s take a trip down memory lane and remember all the major milestones in their relationship.

Lively and Reynolds appear together at Comic-Con to promote their film, Green Lantern. They weren’t yet a couple, though: He was married to Scarlett Johansson, and she was dating her Gossip Girl costar, Penn Badgley.

Lively and Badgley call it quits. “They’re still good friends and hang out on the set,” a source told Us Weekly at the time.

On September 10, Lively and Reynolds pull off their secret ceremony at the Boone Hall Plantation in South Carolina. People reported that Florence Welch, of Florence and the Machine, performed at the reception.

She also said of her husband, “I’m very lucky to be with someone who has better taste than me. We influence each other in different ways. 

With film and TV, you don’t see the results for months. Building a home, you get immediate gratification.”

In an interview with Vogue, Lively practically gushes about her partnership with Reynolds.